Wednesday, 7/29/09

Been busy and lazy is the reason why there has been no posts in a while.

there has been a couple of fun weekends, interesting nights, interesting girls. So that means there will be some interesting and entertaining posts coming.

I think I will just do a cliffs of the events to date.

coming soon...

Saturday 6/20/09

Called D3, asked if she wanted to go out again, she said sure, but only as friends, she's not looking to date anyone right now....

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Went out to Bar/Club5.

Lots of people there. Was lots of people there, but didn't stay there for too long.

Then to Bar/Club13

L said he's got a friend that has a birthday there. Her name is M10, started talking to her. then she was grinding up against me, my hands were all over her, inside her shirt, down her pants (but she pulled them out) lol.. and we made out a little. by this time I was pretty drunk. and even with my goggles on I'd give her a 5... hahah... would still hit it though.

she took my number. she grinded up on me some more, made out a little, then we left.

friends and I were eating and I get a text from her.

"you should come out and eat with me.."

long ass texts between me and her, but in summary.

I was trying to hook up with her, and probably could have, but I had to take my friends home and she did too.

Friday 6/19/09

Went out to Bar/Club10

Nothing too eventful happened. Just had drinks. Cute girls there, but no action.

Thursday 6/18/09

Went out with D3.

She shows up with a low cut shirt and a short skirt, uber short. so we sit outsite on the metal patio furniture, so all I see is her face, cleavage and up her skirt :)

very cute girl, nice too. Just chatted about the usual BS.

Would go out with again, but not the type of girl that would date me. She's the all american white girl, blond (fake), from rich part of town, on dance team in HS, soroity in college.

Saturday, 6/13/09

Went to Bar/Club 12, crazy packed. Met this girl named M9, CUTE as hell, petite little girl with big tits, (love those types) biggest cutes eyes, wearing a low cut shirt, so everytime I look down to talk to her I have to stare at her cleavage.. :) grinded up a little, but she was getting a little too out of control (drunk out of control) didn't feel like babysitting so I went away. Ran into her a couple of times throughout the night came up and gave me some kisses.

Was about to take off so I went back to find her to get her number, and I see her dancing with this big black dude (no racist) and I was like.. uuhh.. forget it...

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Went to Bar/Club 10, to meet with with my friends, met this girl named D3 and her friend K(something) chatted with D3 for a while, cool girl, told her I want to take her out, and got her number.

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So I get groped/ass grabbed walking by or talking to other people, no biggie, but what's with girls just grabbing hands, I'm not sure what I'm suppose to do with that. just hold their hand back? It's apparently an invitation to something... I've been just ignoring it, which I'm probably am not getting the hint.

Wednesday, 6/10/09

I see k6 at the gym that last couple of days, we BS and whatever, and I can't get my self to ask her out, I know I'm totally puss-ing out...

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My aunt tried to hook me up with this girl she works with, her name is N, so she had the idea of inviting her over to have dinner at my parents house over the weekend. (which I thought it would be kind of weird..) anyways, she is totally a nice girl, but not my type.

I didn't get her number, I don't know if it was because I pussed out, or because I'm indifferent about her. I guess I approach it differently too since she's a friend of a my aunt (or someone I know). I suppose I would have gotten it had she been some random girl.

Saturday 5/23/09

Went to bar/club10

Talked to a couple of girls at the bar.. they were cute, but nothing came out of it... it was full, but wasn't feeling it, so we decided to leave.

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Went to bar/club7

This place was crazy, and crazy packed. girls on top of bars dancing, my buddy T was stuffing dollar bills down girls pants.. lol..

Was talking to my friends, felt my hand bumped, didn't think anything out of the ordinary, then, felt it held.. now I'm thinking wtf.. I turn around, I see it's this chubby black girl grabbing it. so I gave her a smile and just let it be. she then proceeded to grab and caress my hand some more, stroking my leg and grabbing my ass.. now I'm thinking.. woah.. so I turn around to talk to her, I see she's dancing with this other dude, I'm thinking, that's cool.. a little weird but whatever... and I noticed they both have rings on their finger.. and that made it more weird.. so I turn back to BS with my friends and she grabs my hand again and resumes her groping some more.. lol.. then I felt she dragging my hand away, I turn around seeing they're leaving and the (bf/husband) broke her hand off mine.. hahahhaa

After they left, I told my friend this, and he said she was groping him too!!! hahahaaa

so we're thinking if they're looking for a 3rd person to join their little party after..

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met this girl at the bar, chatted a little.

later I saw her, went to talk to her,

she said

"wanna go dance"

"sure"

we go over to the dance floor, she pushes me up against the wall and starts grinding me, I'm thinking.. nice, I can work with this..

so she's doing her thing, we getting a little touchy feely, then her friend (dude) come by, and she picks up her stuff and says "I've gota go" and bails..

later after the bar closed, I see her talking to these other dudes.. wtf..

Friday 5/22/09

Went to bar/club12

saw this girl K, I knew her when she was a little kid and now I see her at a bar. kind of weird.

met 3 of her friends, S and 2 that I don't remember.

(one of the two that I don't remember) I asked her what she's drinking, she said, "water", then I replied, "oh, are you DD" she goes "what? no, I'm 32C" then I cupped her boob and said "ya.. that feels about right" lol... she was a little caught off guard. we BSd some more and that was that...

Minor updates

Sorry for the lack of updates. Been running a race on weekends so I'm unable to go out and drink.

In the mean time. couple of girl related highlights..

Went out with K one night. out of the blue I get this text from her and we went out to dinner. Had deleted her number since there was nothing there and we don't talk to eachother. But I knew it was number because she's got an out of state area code. Anyway, we went out, had dinner and drinks, my plan was to get her to drink and work from there. But it was a fail from the beginning because she didn't drink. at the end of the night, I Just straight propositioned her to come over and have sex. She said "no.. I want to keep you as a friend, blah bah blah" ugh.. whatever.. I don't even talk to you anyways.

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So I've been running these races, and I'm seeing the guy that B4 was with the night I met her, at the races too. I think 3x already. I find his name on the results sheet of the races and I have beaten him all 3 races we were both in.. lol.. PWND

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Met this girl I have a crush on while at the races though.. her name is L2. she's a avid runner so hopefully I will see her again.

Sunday 4/19/09

Ran a race today, did pretty well I thought.

saw A4 there with M8, said hi, and that was it.

after, getting some food and drinks my buddy L was telling me that A4 and M8 are like that when they're with THEIR friends, they don't talk to other ppl.. lame..

out of the blue, I see B4 right in front of me a couple of tables away, didn't go over or anything.

later I get a text "hey, I think I saw you at (the race)"

I assumed it's from B4 (I deleted her number), I just replied

"oh, I think I saw you too!"

Tuesday 4/14/09

texted B4:

"how was your weekend, blah blah"

"great, went to.... bah blah blah... decided to date a guy that lives up there, thought I should mention that for full disclosure"

lol.. wtf.. "full disclosure" who the f uses that?

"oh, that sounds like a good time. so, you want to have dinner tonight? I've had dinner with other people too, for full disclosure :)"

"I think I'm going to go to the gym and work some more, thanks tho!"

true or not, I like the upfront-ness of her, and a pretty funny and entertaining one too.

should would have been cool to hangout with, oh well...

been also texting M8, she's pretty cool, but honestly, she's not my type, she's cute, cool, good sense of humor, but is just missing that something for me. maybe she's too "goody two shoes" looking for me.

Wednesday, 4/8/09

asked B4, if she wanted to go to happy hour Friday, she replied with "possibly, already made plans with a friend" I'm cool with that, but WTF does "possibly" mean?? (I know what the WORD means, but wtf kind of reply is that!?!?)

I guess I take that as a no

Saturday 4/4/09

Had coffee with B4 in the afternoon, had a good time. very nice girl, solid all around. inside and out. pretty, well spoken, educated. would see her again, maybe I'll text her tues or wed.

Went out to Bar/Club 12, not that many people there, went to Bar/Club10, not that many people there too, went to strip club instead, got some steak and lap dances and called it a night.

Friday, 3/27/09

Went out to Bar/Club10

Saw a couple of people there, saw K there out of the blue, pleasant surprise I guess, she was looking pretty good. caught up with her a little, found out she's moving out of state... still think of the night where I had a chance to F her, but I chickened out.. ugh...

talked to a few girls at the bar, but nothing really came of it.

after, we went to get taco at our taco spot, met this girl named B4, little cutie, she was there with this dude, chatted a little and found out they work together, so it's all good... had to go, got her number and left.

Monday, 3/23/09

just texted B3, lets see what she comes back with.. I hate waiting.. (she better write back...)

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Texted M6 for a while today, just bs-ing with her. she moved a couple of hours away, still don't know why, or what she is doing there, anyway. it seemed like we went on a cyber date or something, lol.. kind of funny, but weird..

she wants me to go visit her, (I just saw 'sex drive') and I'm thinking probablyyyy nottt..... haha...

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saw this girl named K6 at the gym today, I met her from a class a took a couple of months back, and see her at the gym occasionally. Chatted with her a bit, want to get her number or ask her out, but kind of lacking the balls to.. she's a beautiful girl, as tall as me, nice skin, nice thick brunette/black hair, kind of the intimidating hot kind of girl.. anyway, I've got an "in" that we know eachother, otherwise I don't think I would have had the balls to initiate a conversation with her.

anyway, not sure which is better, ask for her number or just straight ask if she'd like to get a drink sometime?

any ideas..??

Saturday, 3/21/09

Went to Bar/Club12

as usual, tons of people, tons of hot looking girls..

talked to a few girls at the bar.. not much came out of it.. eeehh..

Met these 3 girls, B3, R, and (don't remember her name, let call her.. yellow) chatted a for a while, I was seem to be more drawn to B3, and I kind of got the same vibe back... R was cute, not my type for sure, but my friend L was really into her, so it's all good. And yellow, shes got a cute face, but from her boobs down = :( you can see her belly...

got B3's number, not really my type, but she's pretty and is pretty cool, wouldn't mind going out with her.



Haven't had a makeout session for a while, kind of miss it, don't know if I'm not as ballsy or what, but i'm lacking something...

Saturday, 3/7/09

Went to Bar/Club12

Met theses 2 girls, M8 and A4. They are cute girls, M8 is super innocent looking and just looks too much of a good girl.. not my style right now, I like A4 more than M8 but I ended up getting M8's number. not sure if I want to pursue calling her or not. Maybe I'll see when they'll go out again and have her bring A4 out..

Also saw D2 out with her friends, she's getting married in 2 weeks, I've always wanted to fuck her because she's got big tits. Her future sister in law was also there, she was pretty flirtatious and a little touchy... I'm normally fine with that, except I heard her hubby was there, so it made me a little nervous.

Been texting/writing J4, about going out, she's apparently busy with work but still interested in going to dinner, we'll see how it goes..

M6 and I text a bit now, she's pretty cool, too bad she moved.. she'd be a good fuck.

Sunday, 3/1/09

called J4, left a vm, no call back.. ugh.. prob understandable considering how I bailed on her..?? I think I'll put my last call in on Tuesday. she would have been cool to go out with.

M6 texted me.. she moved to bfe, I guess it's cool we're still in touch. texted back and forth a bit, I still want to know why she moved, and she won't tell me. My own theory is that she's getting pimped out or she's a stripper.. she said she'll tell me next time she's in town.. lol..

Saturday, 2/28/09

Went to this new place, Bar/Club12 - WOW.. soo many hot girls there, it was overwhelming. Super packed too.

Met this girl named J4, she's pretty, we chatted for a long while, lots in common, she's lives in the town where I was from (2hours away) So I suggested we do lunch tomorrow (Sunday) before she leaves, and she was cool with that. Got her card.

Met this other girl, don't remember her name, actually, don't remember exactly how we met. we chatted a bit, and that was it..

Later that night, I was finding my friends after I got my drink, I walked through the dance floor, I get pulled to dance by (the girl I don't remember the name) As you probably know, I don't like dancing, not going to pretend that I dance. and so I was doing my thing with her for a little, then had enough then took off.. (retarded, I know)

AND THEN.. I see J4, and she wanted to dance too.. So we chatted a little and did my thing with her a little too, and said "I've got to do go find my friends... " (or something) and bailed...

WTF.. TWO times this happened, I'm obviously throwing away an opportunity to get some. I'm not sure what the hell else to do.. I told my friend J what happened and he thinks I'm retarded too.. but suggested that I can say "hey, I've got to go find my friends, why don't you give me your number, I'm not sure if I"ll see you again".. which is.. pretty smoooth..

Friday, 2/27/09

Went to this new place, Bar/Club11, pretty cool place, sports bar like.

Met this girl named A3, very cute, not usually the type I go for, but there is something about her, and I was getting the look back too. So.. anyway we chatted for a while, cool girl, I'll text her today (Monday) and see what happens.

2/17/09 Tuesday

Went to CA for the weekend to visit some friends. also happened to revisit some potential mates.

My sister's friend O, Met her about a year ago, she has got to be most genuine and the nicest person I've ever met, she is definately attractive, but not really my type of look. but a solid 10 for being super nice and generous, we like to do the same type of things/activities. definitely a GF and/or wifey material. If/when I move there I will definitely hangout with her. and she is single...

She volunteered to give me a ride home (to my friend's house) I'm going to take it that it's her nature to be so nice and generous, and don't want to misread her kindness.

C, I've met her before, she's cute, but again, not my type of look. kind of the shy and really girlygirl type of girl, which is fine, but not really what I'm looking for. single too...

and Sat night (V-Day night), at like 1:30 I get a text from M6..

"hey what are you up to"

I'm thinking.. :)...

"not much, in CA for the weekend.."

"awnn nice, I'm at Bar/Club__ bored by myself"

uh... no idea what to write back so I didn't.

Next day, texted her a little, then she wrote:

"cool, hit me up when you're back"

so that's a good sign I take it. I'll write her tomorrow.

I'm really considering moving there, not because of the girls, but an EXCELLENT opportunity arose and I can't see myself doing this (work/living how I am now) long term.

Monday 2/9/09

Texted M6 after I left the gym, I thought I would see her there, but didn't.

she write back that she's feeling a little sick and lazy.. lol..

I was going to get something to eat so I asked if she wanted to come along..

"yeah, definitely!.. blah blah"

cool! I thought, so I called her to set it up, she doesn't pick up.. wtf.. I left a vm. 10 min later, no call, 15, 20, no call. wtf kind of weak sauce is this?!!? I'm getting hungry, so I get my food.

Later in the night, I get a text saying she "fell asleep".....

Friday 2/6/09

texted C2 after work.

"Hey C2, hows work today?"

get a reply a couple of hours later..

"busy. on my way to la"

sigh.. future is not looking very bright with her.

I also texted M6 the same time I texted C2, I get a reply back from M6, and we started going back and forth for a while.

It's all good.. but I'm wishing it was with C2 than M6..

Friday 2/6/09

Monday, I decided to text C2 instead of calling, because I really like her and I don't want to F this one up. All the other times I have called a girl up have not ended up well, so I decided to give this one a different approach, and my consultants agree.

So, I texted C2, a basic:

"hey whats up.. blah blah"

All I got was:

"hey. At work."

excited, I replied with some light clever joke and waited to see how she would reply. So I waited and waited, and waited.

That was on Money. Today is Friday. I'm going brush off what happened before, not take it personally and text her again.

She is by far the front runner for girlfriend material of anyone I've met, I'm not going down without a fight.

Saturday 1/31/09

went to bar/club10 to meet up with my buddy I and M4, M4 is looking GOOD, she had glasses on, I LOVE girls with glasses, and she looked great in them.

met these girls, A and C2, A is just cute, beautiful smile, C2.. beautiful girl, vibrant, tall, just magnificent. definitely girlfriend material. a little weird, but she just reminds me of my ex. chatted a little, at the end of the night, I asked C2 for her number, put it in my phone and didn't save it. (user error, it's a new phone)

we had talked about where to eat after, and her and her friends are going to this breakfast place, and my friend L and I decided to go there so I can get her number again. we get there, I get her number, again, a little embarrassing, but oh well. chatted some more.

she said something about "my bf didn't want a dog, and that was the deal breaker.." wtf does that mean? does she have a bf..??

I'm going to call her today or tomorrow to see if she wants to go out. kind of nervous about this one.

Friday 1/23/09

Went to Bar/Club7, spot these two girls sitting at the bar by themselves, one of them was pretty attractive, her friend was ok.. went over by them when I went to get my drink and started talking to them. this girl was tall and attractive, at least 3-4 inches taller than me. quarter Japanese and a mix of Danish, I'm sure that's where the tallness came from. chatted a little bit, then went back to my group of friends. second round, resumed the contestation, seemed like a nice person, but the shallow conversation was dying, so I think I just bailed. too bad because she was hot.

M4 was there, if you don't remember, we met a while back, took a liking to her, got her number, called her, never called me back... haven't seen her for a while, she was wearing this super short dress and these tall boots, which makes her a good 3-4 inches taller than me, she said she's going to the gym now, working out, she's looking pretty good. I ended up hanging out with her most of the night, she dragged me out to the dance floor, we kind of grinded around, my hands wandered around, actually all over... I wanted to kiss her, but it was weird reaching up to kiss a girl. I don't know if that was the reason that prevented me from doing it, or that she's not returned my call before. but whatever.

oh, and I was walking to/from somewhere, smiled at this girl and she just straight grabbed my ass when I passed her... I think that made my day. thought that was pretty funny.

Saturday, 1/17/09

Sat was J's birthday. unfortunately B wasn't there. I was kind of looking forward to seeing her there.

Went to the restaurant, towards the end, we were deciding on where we could go, we asked our waitress for suggestions. She was a cutie, blond petite, with boobs that looks bigger than her frame. Wouldn't be surprised if they're fake, but couldn't decide for sure.. anyway, she couldn't come up with any, she said she just moved up here with her hubby. (taken, what a surprise) so she calls over another waitress friend of her. another cutie, brunette, blue eyes, just striking. we kind of chatted a little, about where there is to go, and took some of her suggestions.

We ended up going to Bar/Club10, it was getting packed there. good crowd. talked to this girl for a while, probably could have gotten her number, but as usual, I didn't (ball-less, I know)

On the way back from the bathroom, I see this girl that looks familiar, then I hear, "hey, were you at ________?" "yes.." it was the brunette waitress from the restaurant. we started chatting. Her name is K5. She's just beautiful. we chatted for a while and "blah blah blah.. my bf..." (taken, of course) a little later her dushbag bf comes over, some dorky looking dude.

then just BSd a little more with my friends then we called it a night. other than the semi heartbreak, it was a fun night.

Wednesday 1/14/09

J's birthday this weekend, and I think B is going to be there.. I'm excited to see her, but could be a little weird. BUT it's only weird, if I make it weird, right? hopefully she doens't bring her bf.

Tuesday 1/6/09

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

so, I haven't been out for a while...

Last night I was browsing on match.com, just for the hell of it, and saw this girl at my work on there. I've seen her before around at work, but never met her. always thought she was attractive and wouldn't mind going out with her. Now that I saw her on match.com, I really won't mind going out with her. The only problem is we work in different buildings across town, never met her nor do I see her at all, maybe 2x a year. How do I meet her..? too weird if I were to signup match.com and contact her that way?